If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn’t be in it.

It is hard to live a life of deception. Telling the truth, being upfront, maintaining transparency, and being open are much easier. You have less work to do and less to remember. You never have to keep your story straight, if you are who you are consistently. It's easier to be genuine than it is to live a lie. This applies to the things we do in our lives, which includes … [Read more...]